HOW TO TEACH YOUR LOVER TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU THE WAY YOU LIKE IT
When we ask a person to do something differently while we are making love, we have to be tactful or we may not get the result we want at all. If the request is not properly presented, it may cause anger, resentment or a feeling of inadequacy. Here is a simple three step request process that works. 1. Acknowledge what they are doing in positive terms. Say something like, “That feels nice.” 2. Request the change you want. “Would... [Read More →]
Dating – The Opening Moves
The opening moves are almost always done silently, but even after speaking, pay careful attention to the other sensory cues, smell, vision, touch, and voice tone. How she moves, what facial expressions she has, what tone of voice she uses, how she postures. All this resonates deep in the psyche, far below the level of consciousness. All of our facial expressions and posturing movements are stimulated by signals from the brain’s limbic system... [Read More →]
From Top Gun Pilot to Top Lover
To be a top gun fighter pilot requires intelligence, courage, commitment, rigorous training, continual practice, expertise, and constant striving for excellence. Being a top lover demands the same. Top Gun Love: A Fighter Pilot’s Manual for Sizzling Sex and Romantic Relationships shows men and women who want to have a more fulfilling, loving sexual relationship how to achieve their highest potential. Top Gun Love coaches the ones who need coaching... [Read More →]
Dating – What’s It All About?
Dating is a form of courtship or wooing, which is the activity that takes place when we are seeking to gain someone’s love or affection. Courtship is a lot like getting a check ride in an airplane. Check rides were like tests or evaluations. I had to pass a check ride at the end of each phase of my flight training. On the check ride, usually given by a highly trained check pilot, I had to demonstrate proficiency in all the maneuvers I had been... [Read More →]
LOVE
Love exists only in the present moment. It comes from what you have been thinking or doing. You make up your mind to love or not to love on a moment to moment basis. You really can love whomever or whatever you decide you want to love. Love is given. It can not be demanded, coerced or bought. You can learn to love yourself by loving another. When you love your partner, and she loves you back, it strengthens the neural network that says you are lovable.... [Read More →]