Dating – What’s It All About?

Courtship or courting is the activity that takes place when we are seeking to gain someone’s love or affection. Courtship is a lot like getting a check ride in an airplane. Check rides were like tests or evaluations. I had to pass a check ride at the end of each phase of my flight training. On... 

Dating – The Opening Moves

The opening moves are almost always done silently, but even after speaking, pay careful attention to the other sensory cues, smell, vision, touch, and voice tone. How she moves, what facial expressions she has, what tone of voice she uses, how she postures. All this resonates deep in the psyche, far... 

Dating – Stranger to Lover

My experience of the initial kind of courtship, when I would first meet someone, was something like taking a check ride. Someone else would be evaluating me as to my suitability for a relationship or at least an affair. This almost always made me nervous to some degree. It wasn’t until I had done... 

Judith & Frank Featured in Vision Board book

Frank and I created a vision board which was featured in the book “The Vision Board: The Secret To An Extraordinary Life,” by best selling author Joyce Schwartz and published by Harper Collins Publishing.  Happily, all 20,000 hardbacks of her book sold out. Now it is being released in a trade paperback... 

Why Powerful Men, Like Tiger Woods, Go Sexually Astray

Why do star athletes like Tiger Woods risk their marriages and millions of dollars in corporate sponsorship to have a sexual fling or affair? Why do high level politicians like Governor Mark Sanford risk their careers by being unfaithful? Some say men aren’t built to be monogamous but that’s not... 

LOVE

Love exists only in the present moment. It comes from what you have been thinking or doing. You make up your mind to love or not to love on a moment to moment basis. You really can love whomever or whatever you decide you want to love. Love is given. It can not be demanded, coerced or bought. You can...