Relationship Advice

There are many ways to get revenge in a bad relationship. This is not a good one.

Your only as sick as you are secretive.

How well do you really know your partner?

If you want the most fulfilling, deepest relationship, you need to start with open, honest communication and mutual trust. That creates intimacy, the longed for closeness that connects you and your mate’s truest selves. Intimacy is being emotionally naked. It means revealing and being seen and accepted for who you really are. Intimacy doesn’t necessarily [...]

By Judith Claire Having done love, sex and relationship counseling in Los Angeles for 34 years, I’m well aware of the conflicts married people have regarding sex. I also know the problems singles have.  Usually, when a relationship is good, and couples can communicate , their sex life is rich, fulfilling and strengthens their love. [...]

Set the stage Where do you want to play? In the bedroom or is there another place that you can trick out into your “Fungeon.” Some people set things up in the basement; some use the garage, apartment dwellers have to be even more creative. Where ever you set up, make it clean and nice. [...]

Have you read Fifty Shades of Grey? The book is a cultural phenomenon. Women everywhere are reading it and talking about it. This new “mommy porn” follows the classic romance novel formula: a virgin girl is ‘captured’ and seduced by a powerful man, who she in turn tames. What makes this book different? The use [...]

We had a spate of thunderstorms here in L.A. last week, and it reminded me of flying formation in thunderstorms. We always tried to avoid them whenever we could but sometimes the only way to get where we were going was to fly though them. The turbulence was so rough that you had to work [...]